What Nobody Is Telling Pakistan: We Keep Confusing Usefulness With Friendship
Foreign policy has no permanent friends. Pakistanis repeat this sentence endlessly and then our state behaves as though every foreign politician who says three pleasant things about Islamabad deserves to be emotionally adopted.
Lindsey Graham was not necessarily lying in 2019 when he advocated a stronger relationship with Pakistan. The more uncomfortable explanation is that Pakistan genuinely aligned with an American strategic requirement at that particular moment.
Washington wanted a way out of Afghanistan.
Pakistan mattered.
Imran Khan mattered.
Pakistan’s military establishment mattered.
The Taliban channel mattered.
Therefore, Lindsey Graham spoke of strategic partnership, trade incentives and mutual economic benefit.
This transactional geometry is exactly why my earlier analysis, Donald Trump: The New World Order and the Muslim World, argued that Pakistan must read international diplomacy through power and leverage rather than the emotional vocabulary sold in press conferences. Pakistan is celebrated when Pakistan is necessary; Pakistan is lectured when Pakistan is independently useful to somebody Washington dislikes.
The lesson was sitting in front of us.
We simply awarded it a medal.
Then Came Gaza, Iran and Graham’s Unapologetic Israel Alignment
Lindsey Graham’s political identity cannot honestly be separated from his extraordinary support for Israel’s military posture.
In November 2023, when asked whether there was a level of civilian deaths in Gaza that would cause him to question Israel’s approach, Graham said there was “no limit” in the context of the objective of destroying Hamas, although he also said Israel should try to limit civilian casualties.
In May 2024, he invoked the American atomic bombings of Hiroshima and Nagasaki while arguing that Israel should be given the weapons it required to end its war. Graham later rejected the interpretation that he had literally called for a nuclear attack on Gaza, but his argument remained rooted in the idea that an existential war could justify overwhelming force.
This was not some anonymous internet radical writing beneath a flag emoji.
This was a senior American senator with decades of congressional influence.
By the time of his death, even mainstream obituary coverage described Graham as a staunch supporter of Israel and an advocate of an aggressive American foreign-policy posture, particularly on Iran.
So when Graham eventually turned his suspicion towards Pakistan during the 2026 Iran crisis, Pakistanis should have understood the ideological collision immediately.
Pakistan was attempting to function as a diplomatic bridge.
Graham was looking at the region through a different security architecture.
Those two positions were eventually going to collide.
“I Don’t Trust Pakistan as Far as I Can Throw Them”
On May 12, 2026, Graham questioned Pakistan’s role in US-Iran negotiations during a Senate Appropriations subcommittee hearing.
His words were direct:
“I don’t trust Pakistan as far as I can throw them.”
Graham was reacting to a CBS report, based on anonymous US officials, alleging that Iranian military aircraft had been parked at Pakistani airfields and were potentially being protected from American strikes. American military officials questioned during the hearing declined to publicly verify the intelligence, citing classified matters and ongoing negotiations. Pakistan’s Foreign Ministry categorically rejected the interpretation, saying Iranian and American aircraft had arrived in connection with the Islamabad talks and that the Iranian aircraft had no military preservation arrangement.
Here is the part that should irritate Pakistan.
The senator once rewarded by Pakistan for “Services to Pakistan” did not merely ask for clarification.
He publicly attacked the credibility of Pakistan as a mediator.
He said perhaps somebody else should mediate.
He declared his distrust before the military officials sitting in front of him publicly confirmed the allegation.
Meanwhile, President Trump told reporters that Pakistan had been “great” and specifically praised Pakistan’s field marshal and prime minister.
Graham was, at that moment, harder on Pakistan than the American president whose administration was actually involved in the negotiations.
And this is why Nuclear Pakistan Did Not Need Washington’s Permission to Act Like a Sovereign State remains relevant beyond one particular crisis. A nuclear state of Pakistan’s size cannot indefinitely shape its diplomatic decisions around the fear that a foreign senator may stop calling us a strategic partner.
The Abraham Accords Exposed the Deeper Disagreement
Graham’s suspicion of Pakistan did not exist in a geopolitical vacuum.
As the Trump administration sought to connect wider Iran diplomacy with expansion of the Abraham Accords, Pakistan rejected the proposition of folding its Israel policy into that framework. Reuters reported in May 2026 that Trump was encouraging countries including Pakistan to join the Accords as part of a broader regional diplomatic strategy; Pakistan rejected that proposal.
Graham publicly highlighted Pakistan’s longstanding hostility towards Israel and questioned Islamabad’s suitability as an Iran mediator. His own X account argued that Pakistan’s animosity towards Israel was longstanding while raising the aircraft allegation.
There it was.
The relationship had moved from Afghanistan to Iran.
Pakistan’s usefulness had changed.
The ideological pressure point had changed.
And suddenly the man once officially listed by Pakistan under “Services to Pakistan” did not trust Pakistan.
This is not proof that Graham secretly served some hidden “master”. Serious political analysis does not require that claim. His public record is sufficient. He was an exceptionally committed supporter of Israel, an aggressive voice against Iran and a foreign-policy hawk who viewed alliances primarily through the security priorities he believed America should defend. Mainstream reporting on his death itself identifies Israel, Iran and interventionist foreign policy as defining components of his career.
Pakistan simply became inconvenient to those priorities.
That is a much stronger argument than a conspiracy theory because it is documented.
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July 13, 2026 at 8:52 am
What stood out to me is the contrast between the honor Pakistan once extended and the later rhetoric that created distrust. Whether people agree with your conclusion or not, the piece raises an important question about how quickly diplomatic relationships can shift when political messaging starts to outweigh long-term engagement.